"I bet you think this blog is about you..."

Dear Anonymous,

Yes, you are right. I don’t know you. Then again, no one really knows anyone, no matter how much we like to think we do. We have no idea what goes on inside the mind of other people. However, I digress.

The point of the matter here is that you think I am judging you as a person. When in reality I’m judging you, per say, as the potential other half for my Wenchy. As a person I am sure you are well liked and well respected. I, however, was looking at how you interacted with my Wenchy. Watching to see how your mannerisms were towards her and your emotional connection. I was sorry to see, for her sake, that it wasn’t there. I just wasn’t feeling it.

As for keeping my comments to myself? Hell, this is my blog and I have the right to talk about the people who are in my life, as long as I am not hurting them in any way. That post wasn’t about you, it was about my Wenchy.

You told Wenchy, after you first read my blog, that I was very opinionated. Oh, you have no idea! I am very opinionated and feel very strongly about my loved ones, the things that I talk about, my beliefs, and what I feel. That’s what makes me who I am.

I’ve got to say though, for someone who just made a comment to me to pretty much keep my mouth shut and keep my opinions to myself…why is that you have been to my blog 3 times already today?! Why do you keep reading my blog if you don’t like what you see? Do you think by reading my blog it’s a way for you to get to know my Wenchy better?

It’s not as simple as that. Getting to know someone better is by actually listening to them. You might be hearing what they are saying, but are you really listening, paying attention to what they are telling you? Can you see it inside your head as if they were painting a picture for you with their words? Making you feel it? Do you have the vision?

You can’t change a person and a person is not going to change for you. Either you are compatible or you are not. It’s as simple as that.

What I am really wondering is, why do you feel that you have to smother a woman? Like you need to have your feelings validated constantly. Were you hurt by a woman who pretty much cast your feelings aside and didn’t give a rat’s ass about how she treated you?

You don’t have to answer these. I’m just thinking out loud. It just reminds me of an ex I had that was the same way. Yeah, there was no way in hell it was ever going to work out for us either. You just have to learn to see it and when to move on.

Like I said before, either you are compatible or you are not. It’s as simple as that.