Let It Go

It amazes me how people do not know how to be accountable for their own actions and have to turn it around on other people. Not only do these people not have the ability for being responsible for their own actions, they also have a problem with letting go, regardless of what it is.

However, I am talking about people who do not know when to let go of other people.

These people feel the need to try to talk another person into staying with them, loving them, calling them, caring about them, coming to see them, and staying attached to them. So when it doesn’t happen they feel the need to contact that person numerous times, lashing out at that person.

What is the purpose for lashing out at that person? Does it make you feel more like a man/woman to try and hurt these people with your words? You want to hurt them back because they hurt you?

Jeezus fucking Christ! Grow up already! It’s time to move on. It’s time to let it go.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.

if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

LET THEM GO

It doesn't mean that they are a bad person

it just means that their part in the story is over.

You've got to know when people's part in your story is over

so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's over.

Stop begging people to stay.

LET THEM GO

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you,

it was never intended for your life, you need to...

LET IT GO

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...

LET IT GO

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...

LET IT GO

If someone has angered you...

LET IT GO

If you are involved in a wrong relationship…

LET IT GO

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...

LET IT GO

If you're stuck in the past….

LET IT GO

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship...

LET IT GO

I do believe that certain people are meant to come into our lives for a specific purpose and then move on. Then there are those that are meant to stay a lot longer than others. But eventually everyone leaves us one way or another, though they are never truly gone. A part of them will always linger on within us. Every person that we meet leaves a little part of themselves with us. Some, the pieces are so small that they seem so insignificant, that we forget them.

Maybe it’s these small, insignificant pieces that you are forgetting that are the same pieces which are being constantly shown to you? Do you feel like the same thing keeps happening to you over and over again?

Perhaps you need to take a second look. It’s not quite insignificant as you thought. Perhaps you need to take heed. Perhaps you need to let go

Unfortunately, there are too many people out there that do not know when to let go. Letting go for them means change, too many are afraid of change. Change is the cycle of life.

I see life as the Death card from the Tarot (which is a symbol of transformation and just so happens to be the 13th card in the deck!) and we are all The Fool (the card of infinite possibilities. The bag on the staff indicates that he has all he needs to do or be anything he wants.) [Although, I myself am the High Priestess card! :o) ]. We are always going through transformations one way or another, but are we smart enough to know it when we see it and know when it is time to move on the next beginning?